Safety, Consent & SSC Principles
Our community is built on absolute mutual consent, clear boundary negotiation, and strict safety protocols.
Safe, Sane, and Consensual
All BDSM dynamics and plays must be voluntary, educated, and agreed upon by all participants without pressure or coercion.
Risk-Aware Consensual Kink
Understanding inherent risks involved in physical or psychological play and taking proactive measures to minimize harm.
1. Explicit Prior Consent
Enthusiastic and clear consent is required for any scene, communication, or image exchange. Silence or lack of refusal is never consent. Boundaries and hard limits must be discussed before any interaction.
2. Safewords & Emergency Signals
Always establish clear verbal safewords (e.g. Traffic light system: Red = Stop immediately, Yellow = Slow down/check in, Green = All good) or non-verbal gesture signals (e.g. dropping a rubber ball) prior to engaging in physical play.
3. First Meeting Safety & Discretion
Always schedule initial consultations or coffee munches in public locations. Inform a trusted friend of your location when meeting someone new. Never transfer money to unverified accounts.
4. Privacy & Confidentiality
Outing members or sharing private profile images, real names, or chat logs outside the platform without explicit permission will result in an immediate permanent ban and referral to legal authorities.
5. Reporting Non-Consensual Behavior
If a user violates your boundaries, uses harassing language, or disregards consent, use our one-click report button or contact our 24/7 moderation team immediately.
Experienced a Safety Issue?
Our safety team investigates all harassment or boundary violation reports within 15 minutes.
File Urgent Safety Report